Learner: Okay, But leave me asks you this. You know how have said that anybody we likes or although it likes us or love them, if we are that they have subjects with them, no we will know there when we died, well? It does this comprises these kinds of relations?
It is far better to simply recognize that, for any reason, probably for a reason you do not know , this another soul can no respond to your offer of love. If your offer is sincere, whereas it is all you can do EXCEPT sending Light. This can not avoid doing if no you love your proper growth to be harmed by the-sided effort in a relation. You know love, are train to learn love, are living love. By so, can not pretend that you do not know as to love fair because any more is not going back your love. You are obligated to send that Light, which of course, is train to send Amur, and to send it with a heart that resists any cólera, any malice, any wish by revenge.
This means that if constantly #reject, will arrest to achieve out of such one aggressive way, you could say, and retreat to send you Light and Amur and in the meantime . If it loves the relation with Him, you then his turn, or near behind his. He there is loving you and sending you Light and Love #by your Guides and of the Angels. It has not left you or has abandoned you, and does not love you to abandon those he loves you, neither. But recognize that his free can mean that they are rejecting you. You are expected to do with them the same when fact with you: it Continues to love his and sending them Light. It continues to love you to "leave them only" and that refuses to feel guilty because you are unable to do a Jacuzzi out of a bathtub full of ice. Amur The ice and send the Lamp, and movement on to find bathtubs with fully operational Jacuzzis fair in the meantime for you to give a no inside.
You are not expected, when an extreme example, to live with and believe each word of and sustain an addict of medicine simply because it loves you. If the yours assaults system of belief, are not expected to go hunting with any has loved you because they threaten to finish your friendship unless it did. Who is well in this situation is not my point in this particular case. My point is that you have to be true to you, yours honour proper heart, your proper beliefs. It can not maintain relations that go against this, because then the relation is not sincere and pure. In such cases, better would have to you finish the friendship and continue send Light/Love in the person, and they equal for you. You are not expected to maintain an open relation with a pedophile simply because it loves you.
Your obligation is to love. If the person is which yours seem unlovable, control to see if you no, such time, doliendo a-live-with-able or a-grow-with-able. No immediately suppose that it is the another person he blames, even so. Do your work of soul. Meditate. Ask the hard questions. See if there is anything - anything - that you could or would have to do this could result in a viable, energy-flowing, that grows, the relation that exchanges Amur and Light. If you study the situation and conclude that there is not , can encara love. Remember our lesson on unconditional love and sending Light to Osama bucket Laden? This you can do. You do not have any excuse no to send Light to another inside your circle of Life, even, or such time especially, those with #that it can not establish a relation while Tierra.
Learner: But which if no you CAN you cure the relation well now? I means, sometimes simply can no.
Spirit: Himself, that is the one who am saying - but that "when long when" it is a serious ud. When I have said on the bathtub, can not force another to respond, and after it has done you repeated and sincere efforts to establish a connection, or to reconnect, or to cure a connection broken, and has received silence like answer, sometimes are interfering with your spiritual growth proper if you do not arrest, because if it has done you genuine effort to establish a fond relation with any that repeatedly no respond, can begin to feel resentful, angrier that it would have to be, more self-pitying that it would have to be.
Spirit: Himself, of course. But now, have not said you never will have to them know.. I have said, or any , this, essence, when your body in Tierra ceases to work and your House of returns of the soul, these people will not be in your welcoming split.
You are, this is in God of way love him. We say you that to God love him all the souls, and that he he loves you any subject the one who you do. You create this? Then, if you are sincere with you, probably also know that it has #to have time in your life when it God achieved #out yours to establish a better connection, if you , or fair to ensures you what are loved and lovable, and have been the bathtub. You have ignored basically His achieving was. You are guaranteed your Free for God's sake, pues is obviously the last one that is train to go to break this fiancé.
God does not expect you to melt the ice, drain the water, install the Jacuzzi, the full with warm water, and achieve it running properly. This is the bathtub subject, no yours. But God will not accept never your complaint that you could no possibly send that bathtub Luz because it is so cold and unresponsive. If you are able to love, then God expects you to do it, if other respond or no.
When Your heart is centered love, when you fill your soul with love and tentativa to share that, when your whole plan to live is to learn to love more and better, are not then expected to be the one who are not , to love the one who can no, or to call friendships of relations or marriages or anything if they are not. But are expected, in everything of these cases and all the multitude other examples am sure you can all think of, to look for that they cure no only for you but for the another, "unfriendly one," to continue to send Light/Love, and prayers, and to be opened to the reestablishment of a relation improved whenever is possible.
Usually, that initially seems a disagreement between two people in fact evolves in a classroom of souls in need to teach and the one who will call "therapy of group," on the subject, because usually more that two souls have involved in several ways. This is another example of how are loved here. It can not seem as he. It can seem like the last thing you would want to do after you arrive house, but think on him a bit more. That well does any involved in the situation if all of the souls are permitted to go back to Earth without being extra education data and possibility further to explore and comprise which past and what and why have lost an occasion to love. This would not be loving at all. Instead, that can not be learnt in the Earth is taught again here, but finally some of the souls involved in the relations failed have to go back in another life and face similar situation to try again to live the one who have learnt.
Learner: You mean on sending Lamp? It likes in bucket Laden?
That cure Relatábamos (A message road Communication of Spirit)
Spirit: This is well,. And the procedure have given you #on is it love you to begin well now, while you are both in the Earthplane.
Learner: So much, is you that it says that sometimes when we maintain to achieve was and achieving was and achieve absolutely any answer, is okay by #prpers to arrest achieving out - so long when we do not become bad on him, and so a lot time when we sent Light to the that never responds when we wrote to them or call them or invite them on or anything the situation can be?
They can you love to send them Light. You do not have to beg, "Sir, mark than old geezer stop hassling me and be nice fair for once in his life!" This kind of prayer will go down your proper vibrations. All you have to do is, inside your meditation and time of prayer, I stable the face of the geezer until he can see well and then send him Light until this that is so ensconced Light that you the tin no longer see him at all, can no longer see anything except the Lamp. If you do this with a sincere heart, has loved you the geezer that yours subtract totally unlovable or that knows considers you totally unlovable.
Spirit: Dead of the body does not finish the occasions of the sincere Learner to cure the relation, himself can. Now, am already ahead of you. You are train to go to say me this is a street of two ways. I totally agrees. Even here, the souls are not forced never to love. This is not the point of his exercise, even so. What love all the world kind to comprise is that, cost the one who cost of as the soul on the other hand responds - or although or no they respond - there still is that you cure available to the left in the physical world if they will do the effort to communicate to the that has come marries his distraught feelings - together - with his love, or his wish to love, his wish that they could have felt love.
But absolutely will have to know this face of people to face and treat the subjects, himself. This does not mean it will be "time of fight" and does not mean anyone you or the another person will be treated the one who you could call "meanly." But is vital that both parties comprise the one who has happened. Both have to learn - neither while in the Earthplane, or here, little afterwards the last #ones returns marries - why Amur could not grow between them.... Which past, why has happened, if or no anything could be done to have things changed, and if it could have, when that it could have taken place and as it could have been begun and by that.
You are expected to send Light, which is always Amur, to the person and to the situation, and to you if you prevengo any pain that there is inside you when you "hone inside" in this person or that attach during your meditation and prayer. And, if the soul is still Tierra or is gone back House, are expected to be opened in the re-establishment of a mutually beneficial, productive, loving relation. But are not expected to be God. You are not expected to interfere with another Free and correct to refuse to Love or waste to do amendments.
Obviously.... Obviously, is better for all the world if that it cures can be effected while both are in the physical airplane, because that it provides both the occasion to move advances understanding, such time tolerance, such time patience, almost always forgiveness. He gives additional occasions to grow. But this is simply no always possible. You can go up to a bathtub full of ice ten times a day, has put your arms across the and say it how a lot you #a lot wishes was a warm, soothing Jacuzzi bathroom.... But if he insists to retain the ice and not leaving the Jacuzzi to be installed inside perimeters, are probably fair no disposal never to be able to experience that Jacuzzi with this particular bathtub. So Yes, takes the effort of both parties to cure serious injuries or to establish a warm relation first place. It can not have injuries, can have any rift. Justo can have any skill to exchange and love of participation in a relation that could and would have to provide this skill to both or to all the members have involved.
Spirit: Himself, that is the one who I means. The only difference is where the another soul that will call the unfriendly one fully is expressing correct now - himself is in the Earthplane or here House.
I am not enseñante for you to fair "write of" the unfriendly ud. They love you and love them, in most of cases. Such time the tin of relation and will be cured. But if it can no anything more well now, if there is meditated on this, begged on this with a humble attitude, without cólera, and your intuitive guidance says you there #be at all you more can do in this time, then for all the practical purposes, this soul is the same so yours death. So much the one who is the difference if still live Tierra or is House?
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